Today is our day. It's Doug's and my birthday!
Doug turns a nice cubed number today. I, on the other hand, have hit a prime age...one that by tradition is perpetual bliss for women. So blissful, in fact, that I'll be making this an annual affair. Today is my 1st annual 29th birthday! Until this morning, I was really nervous about turning 29, but today it doesn't seem so bad...must be the bliss. :-)
Our birthday, being on the same day, is like another anniversary for us. Way back in 1996, when Doug and I first met, we exchanged email addresses for a reason I don't remember and chatted a bit. I remember being a bit giddy about talking with him, though admittedly, I only saw him as a classmate. I had never emailed before, so it was new to me and that made the chatting even more exciting. I would anxiously await his replies. I remember asking him to tell me about himself and typical of Doug, the short answer came back, "like what?" He must have had some defining qualities right? But I started by asking when his birthday was. When the reply came back I thought, "This guy is creepy! How does he know when my birthday is and why would he pretend to have the same one?" So I called him on it. Doug, the ever-practical replied, "Why would I lie about my birthday?" I had to spill that Oct 27 was my birthday too. I think I asked him a few more times, "Are you sure that's your birthday?" I just couldn't believe that we shared the same day!! I'd like to say that it was love right then, but that's not true. It certainly did spark a really great friendship. We proceeded to chat for hours on the phone. When I met his mom for the first time, I asked her about his birthday too. It seemed too surreal.
12 years later, it seems so natural to have "our birthday" instead of "mine."